Archive for the Beginning Swinging Category


Lifestyle Reading

So you are interested in trying out the Lifestyle and wondering where to get the best information. Besides our website (of course!) there are some really helpful resources available for you to embark on the wonderful journey that is the Lifestyle. We wanted to share with you a few books on the topic for new […]

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Desire RM Trip Report Aug 2013

This is our first trip back to RM in 2 years after becoming hooked on Los Cabos and vowing one day to return to RM. Well that day came and it was long overdue. After travelling for 24 hours, we arrived at Cancun International Airport and it felt like we were greeted by 100 of […]

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Swinger Wives – An Accurate Reflection Of The Lifestyle?

As with any reality TV program, the aim is to generate drama to gain high ratings. As we watched it, we were initially saddened to think they had chosen these couples as a true reflection of what the lifestyle was.   We have experienced none of the ‘issues’ the couples on the program had, but […]

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Single Guys In The Swing Lifestyle.

I know there are many single guys in the swing lifestyle, so today’s post is aimed squarely at you to help improve your chances of connecting with a couple and enjoy the lifestyle. From personal experience, we have been somewhat pestered by single guys to a very annoying point. From our on line profile mail […]

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Questions For Swinging Couples

Today’s post will have you pondering a few thoughts for you & your partner to discuss. As we have said all along – trust & open lines of communication are two of the biggest elements of a healthy relationship that are pre-requisites of swinging. How well do you know each other’s expectations and expected outcomes […]

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Report From First Timers to Desire

Since our trip report last week we have had plenty of feedback and questions from readers, so we thank you for your input. Here is something that a friend we made on the trip, kindly allowed us to post here for any people wondering what to expect for the first time from a first timer’s […]

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