Swinger Terminology

What are these swinger descriptions?

So you are looking for some couples or other swingers to have some fun with. You are reading through a profile online that says:

“We are both HWP but not Ken & Barbie, he is cut, we are only interested in soft swap, seeking a unicorn for FFM fun & games. D&D free.”

OK – so what on earth does all that mean?? Well below are some of the more common words & lingo used in the lifestyle.

It is by no means an exhaustive account of all the terminology, but will give you a little more insight as to what you may see on a profile!

HWP – height to weight proportionate. So their body is looking fine for their height.

FWB – friends with benefits. Friends who you have some sort of sexual relationship with.

Fun & Games – any sexual activity.

Barbie & Ken – a description of one’s proportions being aesthetically pleasing or not. Some people describe themselves on a profile as “not being Ken & Barbie” but they may still be attractive

BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is attractive even though she may not be her ideal body weight.

Cuckold – usually describes a man who enjoys watching his wife / partner have sex with other men.

FMF – a description of a trio comprising of 2 females and 1 male having sex. It suggests that there may centered attention on the male in the middle.

MMF – similar to above but there may be centered attention on the male from the other 2.

FFM – again similar but with attention on the centered female.

So with the configuration of the letters it may suggest who is going to be in contact with who and may involve same sex interaction.

Cut – a circumcised male.

D&D Free – drug and disease free.

MILF – an expression for a “mother I’d like to f*ck”. Or the more gentle description of “mamma is lookin’ fine”. So an older lady who is looking hot!

Bi-curious – someone who is interested in trying out same sex activities.

Bi-situational – can become bisexual in certain environments but does not actively seek same sex relations.

Straight – a person who is not interested in any sort of homosexual activity.

Vanilla – people who are not swingers.

Swapping – when two couples have an exchange of partners for sex.

Unicorn – a single female (often bi-sexual) who wants to engage in sexual activity.

Voyeur – someone who enjoys watching other people engaging in sexual acts.

OK – so there are a few descriptors of what you may see on a profile. Good luck seeking your next encounter!

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